Fun
In no particular order, my bucket list. It is a work in progress… last update 1/1/2016
- Attend a class at Billy Blanks studio in Sherman Oaks, CA. While he is teaching and try to participate.
- Dance 6-eight counts with Paula Abdul choreographed by both of us together
- Get my own car
- Get one my favorite groups (schroeder) to play at a celebration of mine or iPain
- Get iPain on the TV show like Apprentice as a charity a celebrity plays for to raise awareness and funds
- Go down one of the world’s longest zip lines
- Judge at a beauty pageant (possibly be in one for married women)
- Meet all three Kardashian girls (and tell them about iPain), especially Khloe’
- Meet Mark Cuban (tell him about iPain, and get his advise to go to the next level with it)
- Move to a house closer into phoenix area
- Publish 2 more books for a total of 10, by the age of 50 (already have RSD in Me, ReMission Possible, The Pain Code, The Pain Code Journal, Real Love, Wisdom of Ingle, and Aunt Barby’s Invisible Endless Owie, ImPossible)
- Renew my wedding vows in the Caribbean
- Ride in a hot air balloon
- Run International Pain Foundation with my husband full time
- See every circ du soleil show in Las Vegas
- Star in a National Commercial
- Take a ride on a fighter jet
Done
- Go on a helicopter ride
- Be on the cover of a national magazine (have already been inside a few)
- Take a 5-day cruise
- Help someone through a difficult situation in their life
- Be in a movie
- Be a contestant on a reality show – was on the newlywed game, The Doctors, Dr. Drew’s Lifechangers, Extreme Time Changers and local news TV/radio a lot
- Be a recognized motivation for others
- Continue to inspire and motivate others through my actions
- Meet Ryan Seacrest (and tell him about iPain)
Missed
- Visit my gramma before she passes away
2012 was a great year for me as a health advocate. I was featured nationally in Women’s Day Magazine, My first for Women Magazine, USA Today’s Chronic Pain Supplemental this past September, Dr. Drew’s Life Changers show, and the Newlywed Game Show. I was also given the honor of being the recipient of the Neuropathy Action Foundation’s 2012 “You Are Our Hero” Award, and participated through the Power of Pain Foundation as a volunteer in 73 events throughout the country in the past 12 months. One of my most fun events this year was the POPF’s Nervember campaign, where each day of November I got to send out a task for people to complete to help raise awareness and better personally advocacy for chronic pain patients. Most of all I am grateful for the friendships and connections I have made with thousands of patients throughout the world via social media, videos, phone calls and emails. Knowing I was able to give back to others in meaningful ways has been a great blessing!
Research has shown that when you smile, your brain assumes you must be happy1.
A good way to start the day, prepare for a doctors visit, or a social event (especially if you tend towards depression) is to make it a habit to practice everyday for a few minutes, eventually, it will become more natural and more of a reflex action to help release stress.
Practice the following simple meditation (might help to close your eyes) for a few minutes each day:
While inhaling, smile
While exhaling, relax deeply
You can do different smiles: a subtle hint of a smile, exaggerated smile, big and soulful, eyes crinkling, mouth open or closed, or just mentally imagine smiling.
You can practice this exercise for longer periods if desired, but if you find yourself not consistently doing the exercise because you can’t spare five minutes, go back to a one-minute meditation. The cumulative value of doing this exercise over a long period of time is more important than how long you spend each morning.
1 Strack, F., Martin, L.L. and Stepper, S. (1988) Inhibiting and facilitating conditions of the human smile: A nonobstrusive test of the facial feedback hypothesis. J. Pers. Soc. Psychol. 54: 768-777